Lessons From Billionaire's Son Peter Buffett: Don't Spoil Your Kids

The son of billionaire Warren Buffett has a lesson for parents everywhere: Don't spoil your kids rotten.

Peter Buffett is a musician and also the author of the new book 'Life is What You Make It: Finding Your Own Path to Fulfillment.'

His father heads Berkshire Hathaway, consistently ranks on the Forbes List of the world's richest people and is an investing legend known as the "Oracle of Omaha."

In the book, the younger Buffett talks about the perils of giving your children too much stuff, and making life too easy for them. Such materialism leads to a sense of entitlement, and the kids having what the older Buffett calls "a silver dagger in your back" -- as opposed to a silver spoon in one's mouth.


Instead, Peter Buffett urges people to have self-respect, to remember that financial wealth doesn't make you better than anyone else, and to disregard society's emphasis on always having more material possessions. He also relates how he's a better person because his father often exposed him to people who were less fortunate than his family.

"Economic prosperity may come and go; that's just how it is," he writes in the book. "But values are the steady currency that earn us the all-important rewards."

It's inspiring to see the son of a very wealthy man talk about ethics, the importance of values and how true wealth isn't based on how much money is in your bank account, but rather enduring personal qualities and attributes, such as generosity and hard work.

It would have been very easy for Peter Buffett to sponge off his father wealth, or to even follow in his father's footsteps and pursue a career in the financial world. But that's not where his heart and his passions lay. Instead, he chose to become a musician, a path he's still following at the age of 52.

Hats off also to the wise Warren Buffett for not being the type of parent to just hand everything to his son on a silver platter, and for always encouraging his son to follow his dreams.

I wonder how many of us -- wealthy, poor and everything in between -- would be comfortable telling our children to "do whatever makes you happy," and really meaning it, regardless of what size paycheck it would bring our children?



Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, an award-winning financial news journalist and former Wall Street Journal reporter for CNBC, has also been featured in top newspapers including the Washington Post, USA Today, and the New York Times, as well as magazines ranging from Essence and Redbook to Black Enterprise and Smart Money. Check out her New York Times best seller 'Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom.'

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