What's the difference between being rich and being wealthy?
"Rich people buy yachts and worry about how much the fuel costs. Wealthy people don't worry because they own the company that purchased the yacht."
That is how legendary comedian-actor-activist Bill Cosby sees it. His definition of wealth: "maintenance."
Last week I had an opportunity to spend an hour with "The Cos" unscripted. Cosby spends a great deal of his time helping historically black colleges and universities (HBCUs) raise money and, in this case, he along with Nancy Wilson were headlining the fundraiser for Coppin State University in Baltimore .
In all honesty, when my husband informed me that he was emceeing the event, I had hoped to get a few minutes with him to discuss politics and, of course, my favorite subject of wealth or the lack thereof in the black community. As chance would have it, we were invited to his dressing room to be introduced. For the next hour, we were mesmerized by his storytelling, and sense of urgency about black folks coming clean about what ails Black America.
Is Cosby airing our dirty laundry or is he simply telling the black community what it needs to hear?
According to a recent research study, "Are Blacks Better Off?" by the Pew Research Center, a nonpartisan fact bank, 85 percent of black folks named Bill Cosby as one of the most highly revered Americans, above Barack Obama, at 76 percent. Considering the amount of controversy his call-outs at HBCUs have caused within the black politic and media, I would have thought the number would have been lower. Could it be that black folks agree with what he says about accountability and that the decline of the black middle class is self inflicted?
During my visit, I watched as he graciously accepted the request of an 11th grader to meet him and then engaged her in a lively conversation about out-of-wedlock pregnancies and where she planned on attending college. Two topics he rails on as being directly responsible for the deterioration of the black family and black middle class. The findings in the Pew study support his view with 53 percent – or a majority of African Americans – saying that blacks who don't get ahead are mainly responsible for their condition.
Dr. Cosby hasn't totally lost his sense of humor and he is prescribing some harsh medicine using his comedy as a sweetener in order to cure what ails his community.
Black Americans – or anyone, for that matter – can achieve financial success in a number of ways: by being blessed with extraordinary athletic skills, hitting a big lottery jackpot or by focusing on acquiring real wealth through education, entrepreneurship and investments.
Visit http://pewsocialtrends.org/pubs/700/black-public-opinion to read the entire study: Are Blacks Better Off?

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By: viola on 12/18/2007 1:24AM
I heard Bill's Comments. True i must say but the majority of blacks where i live, came from the south from being poor and yes they made it to middle class status. After making it they didn't do like you they took their funds elsewhere and left the mother and children penniless. What did this produce many young men today who see no reason to continue in school but try to help mommy not work so hard. Mom is hurting daily she see's her son's life slipping away to the jailhouse or the grave.
I am a black woman who helped my husband and when the money came he went to sow his oats at an old age. The average man of my genenration didn't care they weren't sold out they sold the black woman and her child out. I still love you but the truth is the truth.Mom is still working and trying real hard to raise her child/children while dad has all the excuses why he's not there at home. Adam blamed Eve and told God it's this woman you gave me. We need solutions not anymore problems. Come to the streets they will hear you. Martin went to the people and then the people came to him to hear his vision and his hope for his generation and mines but who's going to stand up for my children's generation? I quess it will be more women then men.
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By: Leadingbyexample on 12/26/2007 3:17PM
(1)Why did some of you feel the need to belittle Moses of his outlook ? Instead of trying to encourage him and help him, You felt the need to criticize him and indicate a minor spelling error wich is commonly made.Support, understand the meaning.(2)Mrs. Viola, I understand your concern for your children's generation. As a young black man, I see a lot of hypocritical black men, who say one thing and then turn around and do another. Let's take T.I for an example. One day he's on national televison expressing inspirational views to encourage the younger generation and turn around and get locked up for weapons of mass destruction. How do you expect people to listen to you and believe you, when all you'r doing is talking. This is a see it to believe it generation. We can no longer hide behind words. Andrew Carnegie said it best. " As I grow older, I no longer pay attention to what men say. I just watch what they do". So to all the older men out there who are unsure about how to guide the younger generation, stop talking about it and start being about it.....Oh and Mrs.Viola, I'll do all I can to embrace a positive aspect upon my generation.
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By: george kibler on 12/28/2007 6:45AM
MR COSBY MESSAGE IS RIGHT."COME ON PEOPLE THE TIME IS NOW"!!
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By: george kibler on 12/28/2007 6:42AM
MR COSBY MESSAGE IS RIGHT."COME ON PEOPLE THE TIME IS NOW"!!
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By: the answer on 12/26/2007 9:56AM
Okay all I am reading is people criticizing other peoples opinions, which will not get us anywhere. I agree to some degree what Cos is saying but also he is going about it in the wrong way. You can't throw stones from a glass house and Cos has a million dollar glass house. When Cos comes up with solutions instead of berating the community, then he has my ear.
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By: Wisdom thru Knowledge on 1/01/2008 3:04PM
Dr. Cosby is right. I've been debating about the non leadership in the community. I'm hesistant for a few reasons. 1)Some people just like living the way they are, in the hood with no apologies. 2)When I'm gone the community will only remember me once a year during Feburary with a slogan beneath my potrait. 3)The division within the community itself via the critical remarks on this issue alone is proof that even when people hear and see the truth they would rather find fault in the messenger than to truly work at become a better people. Simply put it would be me vs. rappers, the block lovers, black supremacists, white supremacists, politicians, the media, the govenment, the individual critics black and white. Talk about against all odds. LOL
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