If you've been reading the news lately (that is, if you can take it), you've probably read about a man in Los Angeles' San Fernando Valley who lived the picture perfect family life, had a nice home, car and a great career but when things went sour for him he murdered his family then turned the gun on himself.
But the case of 45-year-old Karthik Rajaram is really an example of what I fear will become a series of economic desperation-based crimes that we will see as times get harder in coming years. ...
Now, to be clear, there's no actual evidence that overall hard times or great times are triggers of crime one way or the other. In fact, some of the most heinous crimes of our generation (i.e., Columbine High School, Heaven's Gate, Susan Smith) were committed when the economy was doing well.
But these are the toughest times many of us can remember and a lot of people in our generation are not equipped for this degree of turmoil, thus crimes like this one have a chance of becoming commonplace. Indeed this Los Angeles Times graph does suggest that higher incidents of murder did hit that area when unemployment went up, and that's not just in poor neighborhoods.
What that indicates is that certain areas, that are used to a particular standard of living based on an industry like aerospace or technology, will see more crime because of an inability to cope with the sudden downturn. In the case of Rajaram, depression set in after a job loss and his finances, hence his life took on a downward spiral.
Looking at his example, depression was most likely the biggest factor and he did the worst thing anyone can do in his situation: he panicked. We all get scared in times like this and when you don't know how you're going to pay your bills or feed your kids, it is easy to become irrational, but this is a case that clearly teaches one important lesson: whatever you do, don't lose it.
Instead, you're better off seeking help from various resources that are available for you before it's too late. There's help for people who are going through a rough patch, as this article suggests, and it's up to us to use our resources to get past these humps which we are all experiencing.
Look, I'm not naive enough to think that we shouldn't get scared or upset when we get a pinkslip, a foreclosure notice, or see our retirement fund tank. But desperate acts based on our grief, trust and believe me, are not the answer and will only serve to make matters worse and stir up more fear, which is the last thing we need.

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By: jackee on 10/13/2008 5:21PM
shebakescheesecakes There is no reason for anyone to stress out over christmas.If you don't have money to buy all the gifts you would like just ask yourself why should you? Everyone have hard times and should understand that somethings are not a part of survival like cristmas gifts.there are things like food for your family,gas for your car,bills to be paid just to name a few things that families are stressing about all around the world.Christmas "Jesus Birthday" is not a time to give everybody a gift but to honor him for his gift of life to us if you belive.So give him the glory and the christmas stress he can handle it.Take all your chirstmas stress and the tax dollars for our government that goes with it,wrap it up and sit on it and take a bite out of OUR GOVERNMENT pocket and let them deal with that stress.Just say no to christmas and yes to survival.
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By: Indigo on 10/13/2008 10:08PM
Nobody wants to be financially poor, but there had to have been soemthing else wrong with that man for him to have done what he did. Imagine if everone who ever had really severe financial troubles offed themselves and their families, how many people woould really be left? Every new day is a chance to make it better. Thank God many of our ancestors didn't go that route. The "American Dream" has people living beyond their means and that is a big part of why people are crashing left and right. Greed of the people at the top of this big pyramid scheme we call our economy is the other major part of the picture. When I heard about those AIG execs going on expensive spa retreats right after their bailout, I just smdh
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By: Grace on 10/14/2008 12:41AM
janet wrote:
10. Keep your faith in God. He is always here for you. You just have to trust in the Lord.
I totally agree. This jacked up economy does not stop God from blessing...HE is and shall always be in control can't nothing and nobody stop HIM.
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By: diane on 3/29/2009 1:35PM
the economy is suffering because of the american dollar losing it's value - and because of the mortgage lenders 'baiting' us with low interest rates, that ballooned sky high until we could no longer afford to remain in our homes. The economy is suffering because bush deregulated the very ones that had complete disregard for the honest hard working american, because major corporations with their greedy CEO's siphoned million$ - for years, UNCHECKED - while their accountants "cooked" the financial books, because bush gave them a wink and a nod, and the economy failed because of G R E E D, rampant, ruthless G R E E D, and because most americans trusted those in politics and trusted those who were responsible for 'watching' the money - when the crooks and liars were stealing us - blind. Economics is not hard to figure out. What's hard to figure out, is what exactly happened to honor and trust, in our economic system. JUST FOLLOW THE B I G MONEY. It will lead you straight to the crooks, liars. Money doesn't lie.
"The whole truth"
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