
God bless Michael Vick. The man finally gets to go home, after spending 21 months in prison for the whole dogfighting situation. I was sickened by what happened to Vick for many reasons, starting with the fact that I think Michael was incredibly stupid for doing what he did. There, I said it.
Now that we all agree that killing dogs is a bad thing, let's get to the real deal. First, there are hundreds of thousands of Americans who go out and kill animals every year. So, the idea that this man was a monster for what he did is a bit overboard. Yes, killing Fluffy or Fido is certainly tougher to stomach than shooting Bambi in the woods, but the truth is that most of us are hypocritical for portraying Vick as a monster. Secondly, the idea that this man should lose his entire career because of a silly mistake he made at the age of 27 is ridiculous. So, I want to give a shout-out to my respected homeboy Roland Martin for supporting Michael Vick's right to make a living.
I wanted to chime in on the financial side of the Vick case and share 5 things that I personally learned from the Michael Vick situation. I busted my butt trying to defend Michael Vick on CNN, so I figured that I may as well take this full circle by ensuring that we all learn from his silly behavior. Our most valuable lessons usually come from our most costly mistakes, so with all that he has learned, Michael Vick should be a professor by now.
1) You never have an endless supply of money, even when you think you do. Do you remember when you got your first job and would get that $150 dollar check? Didn't it make you feel powerful, as if the money would last forever?
You would fall victim to the intoxication of this power by spending $10 dollars here and $8 dollars there. Then, one day, you reach in your pocket for another five bucks and find out that there is nothing left. Michael Vick did the same thing, just on a bigger level. Many professional athletes spend money like it's going out of style, and don't consider the fact that their money will run out faster than they expect. The actor Will Smith explained it clearly by showing how "a million dollars really isn't that much money". After explaining how the IRS takes nearly half, and the agent takes another 20%, you end up looking like MC Hammer, who danced his way into bankruptcy.
2) Never feel that you are too powerful to go down. Michael Vick behaved in the same reckless fashion as many powerful athletes, politicians or business executives who think they are above the law. The problem with this philosophy is that you might be above the law 99% of the time, but it's that 1% that gets you sent to prison. Always remain humble, even as you climb the ladder of financial success. The money can leave as quickly as it arrived.
Michael Vick Update
A security guard wearing a shirt with the word "Support" and a photo of suspended NFL player Michael Vick moves traffic cones in front of Vick's home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and arrived home Thursday morning. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A caravan of vehicles escorting the van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Neighbors linger in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A private property sign is posted at the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on the dogfighting conviction that capped one of the most astonishing falls in sports history, one that stole his wealth and popularity. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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The media is camped out at the entrance to the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Nineteen month old London Vick points to an unidentified man, right, as she arrives at the home of her father, former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick, in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Michael Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Former Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy speaks at a workshop for ex-offenders seeking jobs, in Indianapolis on Wednesday, May 13, 2009. Dungy is busier than ever, even though he's no longer coaching the Colts. In the past few weeks, he has met with former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick at a federal penitentiary in Leavenworth, Kan., been involved with an education project in St. Louis and attended a Fellowship of Christian Athletes function for flood relief in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. (AP Photo/Michael Conroy)
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3) Not budgeting is a great way to go broke. When I saw a list of Michael Vick's expenses during his bankruptcy proceedings, I almost threw up. This brother was setting himself up to be one of the many athletes who ends up penniless after playing professional sports. If you don't know where your money is going, you won't know where it went. Everyone should have a budget.
4) Toxic relationships can be as bad as toxic personal choices. Vick seemed to have some "boys" who were steering him wrong. He was "keeping it real", when he should have been "keeping it realistic". This does not say, for one second, that you should dismiss hood loyalty when you become famous. But it does mean that you can't have $20 million dollars in your pocket and not expect to end up as the victim of massive (as the great rapper Spice 1 would say) "player haterology". When you have money, fame and power, you are also going to have jealousy and a lot of friends you probably don't need. Putting yourself in bad situations when you have a lot to lose is a great way to end up dead.
There is an even a deeper financial issue as well. Dr. Fritz Polite, Professor and Director for the Institute for Leadership, Ethics and Diversity (ILEAD) at The University of Tennessee states that, "Many people don't recognize the importance of protecting their personal brands. That brand constitutes your worth, whether you are a teacher, professor or an athlete. I would impress upon people of color to understand the value of creating, building, marketing and protecting their brands. Michael Vick created a valuable brand, but he failed to protect it."
5) Be generous, but put a budget on your charity. I have some relatives and friends who see me as a walking ATM. I'm ok with that, since the natural instinct of human beings is to smell out those who have access to resources. But I put a hard limit on my annual charity. If someone asks me for $500, I tell them that I am willing to give them $100 and I make it clear that they aren't going to get anything else from me for the rest of the year. That way, I can show compassion for those I love, while not breaking my bank account in the process. If you are financially prosperous, you should not allow the desire to protect your money to cause you to destroy your relationships (as we teach in Financial Lovemaking). But you should ensure that your loyalty to such relationships doesn't drain your financial resources. So, when Vick gets out of prison, I hope he keeps a lid on "hooking people up". That even goes for his mama.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and author of 'Financial Lovemaking 101: Merging Assets with Your Partner in Ways that Feel Good.' For more Dr. Boyce financial advice, please visit www.DrBoyceMoney.com. To have Dr. Boyce AOL commentary delivered to your email box, please click here.

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By: Tiffany on 5/20/2009 6:52PM
Vick is in serious trouble still. His legal problems are far from being over.
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By: Yvonne on 5/21/2009 2:16PM
if Vick put God on his Side and hold on to Faith and Pray i promise he will be ok.
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By: Lynda Carter on 5/20/2009 7:11PM
I want to start by pointing out the fact that this country has no love for animals. They eat any and every animal. Trucks of animals ride to their death on I95 daily. Coupled with hunting deer and a variety of small animals. So where is the love? I am a Vegetarian so I could go on and on, I have a lot of opinions about killing animals. I believe this war on Vick is a war on the Black man. Vick's dogs fought someone else's dog. There are lots of other pounds. Why is it that no other individual was arrested. Dog fighting continues , so does Rooster fighting. There is lots of money in this business.VA, is a known racist state. I am sure the good old boys set this up.( with Vick's sloppy work) No
Spending money recklessly is a real problem that most of the NFL players and other new high and low earners have. There is a real need for education about money, for most people. Which doubles for folks that are not familar with handling large sums of money. From rags to riches can return to rags almost instantly.This happens more times than not. We as a people need to offer financial education to our children in the church and thru organizations.
However what I want to say in defense of Michael Vick is that he left the dog business for the haters.I believe Vic is a nice guy. So much for moving on.
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By: Lisa on 5/22/2009 3:18AM
I am so tired of white folks getting pleasure dogging Mike Vic on the news. He did his time and get off the brothers back.
i think it is ignorant on black America's assumption that you can take black males out of the ghetto who have never had a dime and expect them all of a sudden to know how to budget their money. Its' like a fat kid in a candy store with a free credit card. They want everything they have never had in life. And then comes the family wanting everything they can get out of them . His family members probably didnt even attend one high school or college game but when the funds came in I am sure they gained family memembers.
I think the professional athletes should be required to have a fiscal manager when they first sign a contract and attend classes on managing their finance. They should be required to also take course on safe sex and relationship. So many don't get caught upi in Kobe' Bryant drama.
Michael, should have left his hood friends and moved to another area. Sometimes you need to leave family too. Let's pray he learned that lesson and had time to think. But I don't see him learning from his mistake.
I thnik that white America over re-acted from the dog incident because I am sure the Dominican and South American players are having cock fights somewhere. White floks race horses and greyhounds.
So, vic hopefully get back in the game and keep your head up. Shake them no good family members who sold you out. Forgive them and don't fool with them anymore.
keep your head up my brother.
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By: monique on 5/20/2009 11:12PM
What is crazy to me is that they acted like this man killed a human. He didn't kill a person! He killed a damn dog. Get over it and let him move on with his life.
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By: Yvonne on 5/21/2009 2:22PM
You Right i feel the same way, Get over it. And let the Man live his Life.
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By: Rosa on 5/21/2009 10:52AM
It's not so much that he killed a dog, it is that he systematically tortured and killed several dogs. It's never great to exploit the weak for money, I know that it is not a human but most people prefer to nurture dogs rather than hang and electrocute them. I gotta say that i hope they let him play though he has served his time and deserves to pursue his goals just like everyone else. Polls show most people agree http://www.newsy.com/videos/vick_s_release_sparks_debate
The recession has shown us that more people in general need to be careful about their money, but it is a shame how most athletes end up with nothing.
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By: steven on 5/21/2009 12:28PM
My question is for all the so called "animal rights people" out there. Why the hell aren't there more animal shelters out here; besides the humane societies and all the others that are overcrowded? What exactly is the purpose of "animal rights people" other than to annoy the hell out of us with all this fluff and no real action.
Yes what he did was stupid but they didn't just want to take his money they wanted to take his life and all that he's worked hard for. Should of just fined the guy not take his job and future away. They just wanted to prove that they had control over Vick and make him an example to other black athletes and african americans to stay in their place.
How about they arrest all the NFL players (white and black) that beat their wives? Or get in drunk car crashes were there are casualties? Its not even about the dogs its about them trying to humiliate him for all the public to see (how many times does he have to appologize?!).
The media/nfl just loves this.
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By: triciagirl on 5/21/2009 6:09PM
Thank you Steven! I hate those damn PETA assholes. They would rather get in the way of progress than to find productive solutions to these issues. They took Michael Vick and lynched a black man, making him look like the biggest demon in the history of the world. What Michael did was wrong, but he is not the horrible person that they acted like he was. PETA needs to get a damn life!
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By: Yvonne on 5/21/2009 2:23PM
I think that Michael was given a bad deal, they could of handle him better than that, they stripped him of all his live saving, yes what he did was not right, but his punishment should have been working at the Humane Society,so he would get to love Animal. and then gave him a fine
But Michael I hope God continue to bless you better day ahead for you, just keep you head up as high as you can.
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