
God bless Michael Vick. The man finally gets to go home, after spending 21 months in prison for the whole dogfighting situation. I was sickened by what happened to Vick for many reasons, starting with the fact that I think Michael was incredibly stupid for doing what he did. There, I said it.
Now that we all agree that killing dogs is a bad thing, let's get to the real deal. First, there are hundreds of thousands of Americans who go out and kill animals every year. So, the idea that this man was a monster for what he did is a bit overboard. Yes, killing Fluffy or Fido is certainly tougher to stomach than shooting Bambi in the woods, but the truth is that most of us are hypocritical for portraying Vick as a monster. Secondly, the idea that this man should lose his entire career because of a silly mistake he made at the age of 27 is ridiculous. So, I want to give a shout-out to my respected homeboy Roland Martin for supporting Michael Vick's right to make a living.
I wanted to chime in on the financial side of the Vick case and share 5 things that I personally learned from the Michael Vick situation. I busted my butt trying to defend Michael Vick on CNN, so I figured that I may as well take this full circle by ensuring that we all learn from his silly behavior. Our most valuable lessons usually come from our most costly mistakes, so with all that he has learned, Michael Vick should be a professor by now.
1) You never have an endless supply of money, even when you think you do. Do you remember when you got your first job and would get that $150 dollar check? Didn't it make you feel powerful, as if the money would last forever?
You would fall victim to the intoxication of this power by spending $10 dollars here and $8 dollars there. Then, one day, you reach in your pocket for another five bucks and find out that there is nothing left. Michael Vick did the same thing, just on a bigger level. Many professional athletes spend money like it's going out of style, and don't consider the fact that their money will run out faster than they expect. The actor Will Smith explained it clearly by showing how "a million dollars really isn't that much money". After explaining how the IRS takes nearly half, and the agent takes another 20%, you end up looking like MC Hammer, who danced his way into bankruptcy.
2) Never feel that you are too powerful to go down. Michael Vick behaved in the same reckless fashion as many powerful athletes, politicians or business executives who think they are above the law. The problem with this philosophy is that you might be above the law 99% of the time, but it's that 1% that gets you sent to prison. Always remain humble, even as you climb the ladder of financial success. The money can leave as quickly as it arrived.
Michael Vick Update
A security guard wearing a shirt with the word "Support" and a photo of suspended NFL player Michael Vick moves traffic cones in front of Vick's home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and arrived home Thursday morning. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A caravan of vehicles escorting the van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Neighbors linger in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A private property sign is posted at the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on the dogfighting conviction that capped one of the most astonishing falls in sports history, one that stole his wealth and popularity. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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The media is camped out at the entrance to the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Nineteen month old London Vick points to an unidentified man, right, as she arrives at the home of her father, former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick, in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Michael Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Former Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy speaks at a workshop for ex-offenders seeking jobs, in Indianapolis on Wednesday, May 13, 2009. Dungy is busier than ever, even though he's no longer coaching the Colts. In the past few weeks, he has met with former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick at a federal penitentiary in Leavenworth, Kan., been involved with an education project in St. Louis and attended a Fellowship of Christian Athletes function for flood relief in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. (AP Photo/Michael Conroy)
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3) Not budgeting is a great way to go broke. When I saw a list of Michael Vick's expenses during his bankruptcy proceedings, I almost threw up. This brother was setting himself up to be one of the many athletes who ends up penniless after playing professional sports. If you don't know where your money is going, you won't know where it went. Everyone should have a budget.
4) Toxic relationships can be as bad as toxic personal choices. Vick seemed to have some "boys" who were steering him wrong. He was "keeping it real", when he should have been "keeping it realistic". This does not say, for one second, that you should dismiss hood loyalty when you become famous. But it does mean that you can't have $20 million dollars in your pocket and not expect to end up as the victim of massive (as the great rapper Spice 1 would say) "player haterology". When you have money, fame and power, you are also going to have jealousy and a lot of friends you probably don't need. Putting yourself in bad situations when you have a lot to lose is a great way to end up dead.
There is an even a deeper financial issue as well. Dr. Fritz Polite, Professor and Director for the Institute for Leadership, Ethics and Diversity (ILEAD) at The University of Tennessee states that, "Many people don't recognize the importance of protecting their personal brands. That brand constitutes your worth, whether you are a teacher, professor or an athlete. I would impress upon people of color to understand the value of creating, building, marketing and protecting their brands. Michael Vick created a valuable brand, but he failed to protect it."
5) Be generous, but put a budget on your charity. I have some relatives and friends who see me as a walking ATM. I'm ok with that, since the natural instinct of human beings is to smell out those who have access to resources. But I put a hard limit on my annual charity. If someone asks me for $500, I tell them that I am willing to give them $100 and I make it clear that they aren't going to get anything else from me for the rest of the year. That way, I can show compassion for those I love, while not breaking my bank account in the process. If you are financially prosperous, you should not allow the desire to protect your money to cause you to destroy your relationships (as we teach in Financial Lovemaking). But you should ensure that your loyalty to such relationships doesn't drain your financial resources. So, when Vick gets out of prison, I hope he keeps a lid on "hooking people up". That even goes for his mama.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and author of 'Financial Lovemaking 101: Merging Assets with Your Partner in Ways that Feel Good.' For more Dr. Boyce financial advice, please visit www.DrBoyceMoney.com. To have Dr. Boyce AOL commentary delivered to your email box, please click here.

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By: Michelle on 5/23/2009 4:12PM
First let me make a statement to Dr. Watkins, I like the way you carry yourself, your point of views are tangible and easy to relate to. Thank You. Vick is from the hood like AI, Vick should have had a conversation with AI about the do's and dont's of now having what I didnt have before, MONEY. I pray that something good have come out of what he had to go through
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By: monique on 5/23/2009 6:32PM
I also agree that it's good that Dr. Watkins provides a perspective that black people can relate to. He doesn't defend the hood at all costs and he doesn't bash away on black people. I love an intelligent black man!
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By: richardN on 5/23/2009 10:54PM
IT WAS A WHITE MAN HE WOULD HAVE GOTTEN PROBATION
NOT JAIL TIME.
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By: monique on 5/24/2009 11:52AM
You are 100% correct. I hate it when people try to act like Vick's treatment had nothing to do with race. It had everything to do with race, and white racist people are always in denial about how they are going to treat black men. It's just stupid.
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By: 1natural1 on 5/24/2009 10:51AM
Amen, my brother. I have felt the same way about the overkill coverage on Michael Vick. He has learned a valuable lesson, as we all have. You are never too rich or too famous to go down. He was incredibly stupid but not malicious. Your five money lessons were right on point. They need to be carved in stone, placed in every locker room, flown from banners, sung in church. Our sons and daughters HAVE to understand that a budget is more important than that bling.
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By: triciagirl on 5/28/2009 12:30AM
LOL! You got that right!
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By: Gab on 5/27/2009 11:49AM
Who cares what color Vick is or that he is famous. He made a life style of abusing innocent animals. Rich men seem to often get away with killing their wives, and I have seen people try to justify that as well. I say, don't to the crime if you ain't got the time.
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By: payattention on 5/28/2009 12:31PM
That article was funny, "even his mama." LOL that was funny.
There is a lot of truth in that article. We seem to forget the principles that govern money and financial stability because we like "living in the moment." Living in the moment will get you jacked up, um hello RECCESSION. Aside from the obvious hypocritical backlash Vick has received, I wish him the best of luck and a "Get Real" to all his haters.
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By: tershon on 6/05/2009 10:54AM
money money money oh that paper the white man makes why yt always want somebody to chase paper thats not worth a damn! If you could ask The Creator(Jah)about money what would be said?Keep it in its place and don't let it change you for the worse.Vic should give them all his ass to kiss.
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