My beautiful daughter Carmen just helped her school win its first state championship. She is the shortest person on team, the quickest and the scrappiest - both a lady and a monster when she has to be. As I sat in the stands cheering like a lunatic, I noticed that there weren't enough parents cheering along with me. The stadium was half empty, and most of the people cheering in the stands were women and children. I wondered how these young women felt, knowing that while their stands were only partially full, the boy's game (which they lost) had been sold out.
I couldn't quite figure out why we don't support women's sport the way we should: The fundamentals of the WNBA are better than the men, and the women are incredibly talented and competitive. But after some long reflection on the disparity of support, I gave myself the answer to my own question.
When planning our trip to New York City. I said to Carmen, "How would you like to see a Knicks game?" Her eyes brightened like Times Square and she shook her head up and down so hard I thought she was going to break her neck in the process. I then realized my mistake: While it was quite natural for me to think about inviting my daughter to a Knicks game, I didn't think for one second to invite her to see the New York Liberty, the women's team in the city.
I am just as sexist as the rest of us and I am embarrassed for it.
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But I want to out grow my sexism, in part as a tribute to my mother, sister, and daughters. I want to understand how we as a society process women's sport and why we don't give it the same respect as men. This lack of respect has translated into serious financial woes for the WNBA, as they are struggling much more than other professional sports leagues in this struggling economy. Our girls should get the same encouragement as our boys.
I have brought in women's sport expert Dr. Deborah Stroman, my colleague with the College Sport Research Institute at The University of North Carolina Chapel Hill. She is an expert in women's sport, and an excellent source of intellectual light on this important issue. While we are both professors with the institute, I wanted to spend some time being Dr. Stroman's student.
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Do we support women's sports the way we should? I argue that we don't.
Dr Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and the author of the forthcoming book, "Black American Money." For more information, please visit www.BoyceWatkins.com. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered directly to your email box, please click here.

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By: lola on 6/24/2009 6:41PM
I played sports growing up, and I loved playing basketball. However, I do not enjoy watching women's basketball, I wish I did, but I don't find it exciting. Plus, I like watching men from a purely physical standpoint. So, with that being said; why aren't more men watching the WNBA?
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By: monique on 6/24/2009 11:09PM
I think it's stupid that you're attacking this man for admitting his own flaws. But you have no interest in improving yourself. That's pathetic.
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By: kcn9971 on 6/25/2009 9:10AM
Monique, stop stalking me....How many more restraining orders must I place on you....for the last time, it's over between us!!!!
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By: southsidechi on 6/30/2009 1:56PM
i agree with you kcn and i am female
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By: baller1 on 6/25/2009 4:56PM
It's just boring. Unexciting. It looks like a bunch of women trying to be like the men. Most of whom look like men, with a few exceptions. Who cares.
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By: Flora Porter on 6/26/2009 4:47PM
"KCN" sounds sexist. I dont agree with you. Woman do put alot into their game. They deserve some support and respect is what we are saying.
You are right we do need to fill up some of those empty seats. "I Agree".
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By: Huddy Hud on 6/30/2009 6:44AM
In it's intial three years I supported the WNBA, but as a man who is accustomed to physicality the women are not able to offer me the same thrill. Not that they are not competetive and full of hustle and grit-it's just not the same, it's almost like trying to imagine a professional womens football team...yucky. I take nothing away from the WNBA-it's just not exoiting enough to keep my attention, and lets face it-I love the NBA but I am not able to watch every single game let alone the WNBA...peace and hair grease y'all.
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By: John on 6/30/2009 11:35PM
It is unfortunate, but many see the WNBC as the LNBA (Lesbian National Basketball Association). It has no attraction to men who normally gets into sports. I am not sure if it is the same reason for women, but when the majority of the United States being women, you would think a high number of women would be supporting this league.
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By: Proppy Eight on 6/30/2009 10:08AM
Maybe the "women" would be supported if they looked and acted like women. When they play their games the stands are filled with females who just go to pick-up on females.
A father once said he left the game before it started at the Capitol Center (WDC), because so many girls were standing along the hallways, in the bathrooms, and grabbing, staring, and using pick-up lines at other females. In other words: WNBA fans and games aren't family-friendly!
AT NBA games do you see the opposite? Are sexualhomo guys all over the place picking-up other guys? Are little boys threatened and likely to be sexually assaulted in the restrooms? Putting it family-friendly, HELicon no!
Similar words and examples were conveyed by a Security Officer who said he worked games at the Cap. Center. No dad or family member takes pride in saying their girl is a lesbian, so no mom/dad wants to influence their child with these manly, androgenous, unfeminine, unmarried to the opposite sex, psychologically challenged ('I don't like, males, what I'm acting like--a male?').
They'd be supported as forthright as small town girls are in sports, if they showed some motherly and family values people wanted instilled in their girls.
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By: BBallmom on 7/01/2009 2:52AM
My daughter is an elite bastketball player being recruited by many DIV 1 colleges. I love to watch her play she is very skilled, and just fun to watch. However,I have to agree their are far to many girls that are under the assumption that if you are very skilled and understand the game just as much as a guy, you have to act or look like one. It was to my daughters surprise that on her club team, there are so many girls that are Lesbians (or thinks they are) trying to act like a guy. My daughter plays the game because she loves it not because she trying to be something she is not. This is very disturbing especially because these girls or 16 & 17 year olds. I have always taught her to treat people with respect no matter what, but stay true to yourself. She likes her teammates but says she wishes they would understand you can be a female,look good,date guys, and still have "GAME"
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