My beautiful daughter Carmen just helped her school win its first state championship. She is the shortest person on team, the quickest and the scrappiest - both a lady and a monster when she has to be. As I sat in the stands cheering like a lunatic, I noticed that there weren't enough parents cheering along with me. The stadium was half empty, and most of the people cheering in the stands were women and children. I wondered how these young women felt, knowing that while their stands were only partially full, the boy's game (which they lost) had been sold out.
I couldn't quite figure out why we don't support women's sport the way we should: The fundamentals of the WNBA are better than the men, and the women are incredibly talented and competitive. But after some long reflection on the disparity of support, I gave myself the answer to my own question.
When planning our trip to New York City. I said to Carmen, "How would you like to see a Knicks game?" Her eyes brightened like Times Square and she shook her head up and down so hard I thought she was going to break her neck in the process. I then realized my mistake: While it was quite natural for me to think about inviting my daughter to a Knicks game, I didn't think for one second to invite her to see the New York Liberty, the women's team in the city.
I am just as sexist as the rest of us and I am embarrassed for it.
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But I want to out grow my sexism, in part as a tribute to my mother, sister, and daughters. I want to understand how we as a society process women's sport and why we don't give it the same respect as men. This lack of respect has translated into serious financial woes for the WNBA, as they are struggling much more than other professional sports leagues in this struggling economy. Our girls should get the same encouragement as our boys.
I have brought in women's sport expert Dr. Deborah Stroman, my colleague with the College Sport Research Institute at The University of North Carolina Chapel Hill. She is an expert in women's sport, and an excellent source of intellectual light on this important issue. While we are both professors with the institute, I wanted to spend some time being Dr. Stroman's student.
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Do we support women's sports the way we should? I argue that we don't.
Dr Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and the author of the forthcoming book, "Black American Money." For more information, please visit www.BoyceWatkins.com. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered directly to your email box, please click here.

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By: bailey on 7/01/2009 11:07AM
So many reasons in varying combinations, all valid as a matter of perspective.
Not too many men are comfortable with women being physical outside of a sexual setting: it sets off a primative defence response usually alerted by other males. I can't think of anyone who would pay to feel threatened. Evolution is a slow process.
Sports are exciting to watch primarily because they fall into the realm of "can't do" or aspire too. Very few young men aspire to be in the Wnba nor play as well as 'her' one day.
Our culture as a whole rests comfortably on women being valid only as sexual and breeding units. They are spoon fed what will make them desirable to men with every other option being the sad (smart/ugly girl) alternative. How does aspiring or attaining the physicallity of a wnba'r help make her the society approved girlfriend,wife and milf(rhetorical).
The combination of comfort with women's (non sexual)physical ability, financial capacity, personal sexual security,schedule opportunity and a love for basketball in general,is quite a lot to ask for from a species that is basically still afraid of the dark.
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By: tee on 7/01/2009 6:27PM
i have to agree with knc,i feel like im looking at a bunch of wannna be like mike dykes.stick with cheerleading or at least a sport that keeps the women looking sexy. tennis, beach volleyball, or womens wrestling in a 2 piece. now theres a ladys sport for ya!
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By: kim on 7/01/2009 6:45PM
I grew up playing basketball..played from 4th-12th and some college. However I find myself disinterested in women's basketball for 2 main reasons. Too slow and they play too low under the rim. I like the highflying dunks, alley-oops, pinned block shots against the back board, hang in the air shots and other things women seem physically incapable to do. Although it sounds bad, it is what it is and even though I've watched a few wnba games here and there....it's nothing compared to the NBA. Mens basketball is where it's at!! It's fantastic!
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By: Daniel Asamota on 7/01/2009 8:36PM
Now I have daughters and knieces and I love them dearly. But basketball is a MAN'S GAME! If they wish to play that's their affair and I will support any of my girls in whatever they want to do. But I will also tell them the realities of what to expect if they seek to have a career in this sport. And as for the WNBA, they're still around?
Lemme just tell it like it is; I'm not interested in seeing some manly looking women play a man's sport! I watched a few games only because I had dated or knew a few of the players who got drafted, otherewise I haven't kept up nor cared about women's basketball. The sad truth is that men want to see men play ball and they want to see women be women. Why do you think women's tennis has gotten so popular? It's not because we have some dying need to keep up with the stats and career highs and lows of women tennis players; we like seeing them in those short skirts! I mean don't ask me about Venus Williams stats or how many grand slams she's won or what her ranking is for WE DON'T CARE! Ask me about how nice she looked in that short skirt she was wearing and I can tell you. And you can say what you want but women's tennis shot up in popularity when their skirts got shorter! Beach volleyball which is getting more popular and not because we actually give a damned about the sport of volleyball, but seeing them women jump around in those bikinis in the sand just does it for us! Hell women's softball has a better chance of becoming more popular because their uniforms are form-fitting and we can get an idea of how good they look under all of those clothes. So people can say what they want but men don't care about women's sports for we look at them to look at the women! We could care less how well they played.
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By: robert on 7/02/2009 5:01AM
think about it. In mens sports they bring more excitment and energy that women cant match. Just guys being guys will keep them away from womens sports i mean think about it guys look at women in a femine way u dont want to see her punching someone out or slapping a puck into a net. Womens basketball will never really take off for one good reason 99% of the women in the wnba CANT DUNK. Thats whats most of the excitment comes from in the nba i mean if u went to a Lakers vs Celtics game and all u say was lay ups u would be kinda mad no difference in the wnba without showmanship no sport would take off. Women do a lot better a handles and team effort but guys will always win in the excitment departments it sad but true
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By: danny on 12/22/2009 1:40PM
The answer is pretty obvious: boys are better than girls at sports. Who wants to see a retarded game between girls? NOBODY. This is why the attendance at WNBA games is ridiculously low. You could fall asleep during their games. So boring compared to the men's game. And to say that women's fundamentals are better than men's is just effing RETARDED. Is the author of this column sporting a vagina that impairs rational coherent thinking?
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By: Tom on 3/01/2010 7:11PM
Looks like someone took an undergraduate course in psychology.
We don't support the WNBA for the same reason we don't support AAA baseball or arena football - they're inferior leagues. Sure we might go because the tickets are cheap or there's no professional team in town, but in the end it's an inadequate substitution
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By: dbo on 9/07/2010 2:35PM
What a dumb point of view. My female roommate thinks the same way. Women and men are equal but we are not the same. Women are better communicators and have equal intelligence, maybe even more. But physically we are not the same. Women like Dr. Watkins and my roommate need to come to terms with this. Men are filled with TESTOSTERONE. Which makes us bigger, faster, and stronger. Dunking a ball, hitting a home run,and knocking the crap out of some one are done better by men. That IS NOT a sexist point of view. It is all because of DNA and science. Some say God. Besides, most of the women I know could care less about sports. Most of the men I know love them.
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