
Indeed, it's very well documented that Blacks in general lag behind their white counterparts on a number of financial measures, including:
- Homeownership rates (did you know 1 in 3 African American homeowners is currently in foreclosure?)
- Lncome levels
- Net worth
- College degree rates
- Dollars invested in the market
...And so on.
But the dilemma facing single black women may be particularly acute when you consider that many have no one to fall back on when times get tight and no real financial safety net. Add to the mix that many of these women are also parents, trying to raise children, and it's easy to see why this situation is so very dangerous. The plight of single black women has the ability to negatively impact an entire generation.
Moreover, when a person has essentially no net worth, it puts you at risk of a whole host of personal, financial and professional problems. Those individuals are more likely to be scammed -- sometimes because their desperation leads them to believe the siren songs of con men. Additionally, people with no financial resources are more likely to go deeper into a downward financial spiral. After all, if you're already broke, and your car breaks down, what do you do? In all likelihood, you whip out a credit card to fix that car, and then you pray that you'll somehow get the money later to be able to pay the bill.
People of few financial means are also more susceptible to being taken advantage of on the job. Consider, for instance, an administrative assistant, a nurse, a teacher or a retail worker who is living dangerously on the brink, in financial terms. If her boss refuses to give her a well-deserved raise -- or worse, does something crazy like makes sexual advances on the job -- how likely is this female employee to fight back or challenge such wrongdoing in the workplace? In many cases, she won't simply for fear of losing her job.
I don't know what all the answers are to overcome this huge problem. But as a black woman, I know that we've got to do better. We must. If not for ourselves, then certainly for our children. We simply must.
On a positive note, I am encouraged everyday by the remarkable resilience that I see displayed all around me by African American women. We are fighters. We persevere. We strive against all odds. I can't tell you how many Black women have written me over the years, or come up to me at financial workshops, and shared their personal stories of anguish and financial stress. Yet, one thing remained constant in most of those stories. They had hope -- or at the very least, they were reaching out for hope. They believed they could have a better future. Therefore, they were seeking guidance.
So if you're one of those black women (single or married) who is broke, keep your head up. Be inspired by positive examples you see and be encouraged by those around you who are getting ahead. Don't hate on others who are prosperous. Learn what they do well, and emulate it. Also, maintain an upbeat spirit and outlook, even through the tough times.
You may be broke. But you're not broken.
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, an award-winning financial news journalist and former Wall Street Journal reporter for CNBC, has also been featured in top newspapers including the Washington Post, USA Today, and the New York Times, as well as magazines ranging from Essence and Redbook to Black Enterprise and Smart Money. Check out her New York Times bestseller, 'Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom.'

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By: jack on 3/16/2010 8:12PM
This amount of net worth cannot be correct. Maybe this author is starting to copy Dr B who writes silly articles with no basis or back up information other than his biased opinions
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By: rick on 3/17/2010 7:54AM
Then again jack this article could be right. They could be talking about the ladies net worth. People do these days live paycheck to paycheck. Think about it.
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By: vdog on 3/19/2010 12:33PM
A lot of this has to do with OVERSPENDING TO BE FLYY and HAVING BABIES AND TAKING CARE OF BUMS!!!!
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By: vdog on 3/19/2010 12:39PM
A lot of this has to do with the fact that too many sistas OVERSPEND TRYING TO BE FLYY and HAVE BABIES BY AND TAKE CARE OF BUMS!!!
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By: Richard on 3/17/2010 7:59AM
Wake people!!! We can read this information and ignore it or we can read it and do something about it. We can pool our resouces together share helpful knowledge and wisdom. We can network together to find solution. We can start saving money today on the basic need like food and then take that saving and save it. Next pay yourself first. WOW you say if an broke how do I do that? If to have a dollar save .10 cent in a jar and all the loose change and see what happens.
Here is a web site that you can save on Grocery I am talking name brand:
www.myharvestamerica.com/rsk
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By: Nicole on 3/17/2010 12:35PM
Sorry but this article is bullcrap. Black women are one of the strongest women in the world. They have to raise children alone because the black man chooses not to be there. There are many MANY intelligent, articulate and hardworking black women in america and throughout the world.
Where are the statistics on other women? Last I remember there were more white people on welfare in the US than any other race. What about the poor white trash of America? What about the Latinos?
Everyone has their problems which is why this article is bull.
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By: james j morgan on 3/17/2010 1:10PM
I agree that the article is bullcrap,I think that the arthur is talking about another race of women,and just flipping it because all the black women I know are doing very well for themself.
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By: elddurr on 3/17/2010 1:24PM
Nicole
Thank you. I was just thinking, what was on the orginators mind when she wrote this article. Who's side is she on. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I know some of the most wonderful Black ladies that excell in their fields of work and these ladies can buy whatever they want. I adore my Black sistas. Ladies, You "ROCK".
On the other hand I know of many White women at, or below the poverty line. The future for the Black woman is Bright and full of Good things. Because many of them know, and have a relationship With the Lord Jesus Christ. as do I.
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By: Sherry on 3/18/2010 5:56PM
I know this isn't bullcrap. I think it depends on where you are from. I've met black people from other states and I've noticed that mindset has alot to do with why this article is true. Also, If you don't see better and you don't have the resources to learn better that you get stuck living paycheck to paycheck. I'm sorry if you haven't opened your eyes to see the big picture but I grew up middle class until my father left. I am living in poverty working my way up. I am one of those broke but not broken because I have GOD. Thats what gets the strong black women through broke or financially secure but never think that there is not any truth to this. I am proof and I can show you these women. That doesn't mean we aren't still queens.
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By: Tina on 3/17/2010 1:13PM
I feel that we, black women have to go back to the old days; submissiveness ( so we can have a man) instead of having to be strong all the time, our real hair (financially that's killing us), doing our own nails (financially killing us too) and start focusing on us as far as health, wealth and educating ourselves. We wonder why there are so many single, black mother, well I'm a realist and I have many single, black friends and I say do some self evaluation, that overly strong have to be right attitude, letting our bodies go at such young ages now, the weave (my man and his friends hate weave). We need to keep it tight, like Michelle Obama. She's the bomb!!!!
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