
Indeed, it's very well documented that Blacks in general lag behind their white counterparts on a number of financial measures, including:
- Homeownership rates (did you know 1 in 3 African American homeowners is currently in foreclosure?)
- Lncome levels
- Net worth
- College degree rates
- Dollars invested in the market
...And so on.
But the dilemma facing single black women may be particularly acute when you consider that many have no one to fall back on when times get tight and no real financial safety net. Add to the mix that many of these women are also parents, trying to raise children, and it's easy to see why this situation is so very dangerous. The plight of single black women has the ability to negatively impact an entire generation.
Moreover, when a person has essentially no net worth, it puts you at risk of a whole host of personal, financial and professional problems. Those individuals are more likely to be scammed -- sometimes because their desperation leads them to believe the siren songs of con men. Additionally, people with no financial resources are more likely to go deeper into a downward financial spiral. After all, if you're already broke, and your car breaks down, what do you do? In all likelihood, you whip out a credit card to fix that car, and then you pray that you'll somehow get the money later to be able to pay the bill.
People of few financial means are also more susceptible to being taken advantage of on the job. Consider, for instance, an administrative assistant, a nurse, a teacher or a retail worker who is living dangerously on the brink, in financial terms. If her boss refuses to give her a well-deserved raise -- or worse, does something crazy like makes sexual advances on the job -- how likely is this female employee to fight back or challenge such wrongdoing in the workplace? In many cases, she won't simply for fear of losing her job.
I don't know what all the answers are to overcome this huge problem. But as a black woman, I know that we've got to do better. We must. If not for ourselves, then certainly for our children. We simply must.
On a positive note, I am encouraged everyday by the remarkable resilience that I see displayed all around me by African American women. We are fighters. We persevere. We strive against all odds. I can't tell you how many Black women have written me over the years, or come up to me at financial workshops, and shared their personal stories of anguish and financial stress. Yet, one thing remained constant in most of those stories. They had hope -- or at the very least, they were reaching out for hope. They believed they could have a better future. Therefore, they were seeking guidance.
So if you're one of those black women (single or married) who is broke, keep your head up. Be inspired by positive examples you see and be encouraged by those around you who are getting ahead. Don't hate on others who are prosperous. Learn what they do well, and emulate it. Also, maintain an upbeat spirit and outlook, even through the tough times.
You may be broke. But you're not broken.
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, an award-winning financial news journalist and former Wall Street Journal reporter for CNBC, has also been featured in top newspapers including the Washington Post, USA Today, and the New York Times, as well as magazines ranging from Essence and Redbook to Black Enterprise and Smart Money. Check out her New York Times bestseller, 'Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom.'

Comments: (37)
Add a comment
By: Tiffany on 3/18/2010 3:03PM
Are you for real? Submissiveness is not the answer. You have to also relize many women didn't have a choice but to work. I personally do not believe these figures. I would have to see where they compiled these numbers. Did they lump all black women or just the ones on government assistance? Did they count the white trailor dwellers or just the middle class whites? There are just too many sistas that are in the work force that are holding high level positions for this number to be correct. Was any of the black women counted in Atlanta, Charlotte or Houston, there are tons of single black women who have it going on. I just don't believe the numbers.
Report This
By: Uriah Jordan on 3/17/2010 1:51PM
Here we go again! $5! My sisters please stop reading articles that breakdown your self-esteem. BV says black women but why not tell the whole story? How much are single women worth not just black women! I'm getting tired of the idiotic articles that come out in BV. 1 out of 3 black houses are in forclosure--Ha! If you've taken statistics you know you can make the numbers say anything. I only know three people who are renting but all of my other friends are homeowners and none of them are in default so should I now come out with my own article stating that there aren't any black homes in default? In te 70's my father stopped my brother and I from watching cop shows because the only black people on were thugs, and prostitutes. He did not want my brother and I to get the impression that, that was all we could aspire to be. In the mid 90's groups were appalled by the lyrics in some rap songs... I'll ask every reader to ask themselves what does this article hope to accomplish by telling you that sisters and only sisters are suffering in this economic climate? Am I to believe that in the coal mining towns where there are few blacks that the single mothers populating trailer parks are doing better? How about the single mothers who worked in manufacturing plants in the mid-west? I grew up with articles that told me where all the black men were or weren't yet none of those articles applied to any black man I knew. Instead of focusing on what Rhianna is wearing or if Tyson's show is going to be a hit, why doesn't BV direct sisters to sites that may help them get school grants, affordable housing and the like. Now I've done a lot of venting and most likely sounded like one of those Negroes who wants to ignore problems... far from it, I just think that this site can do better than bog us down with drivel that I don't think can be proven. Right now we're all hurting, but sisters are strong there the mothers of mankind and they've seen us through the middle passage, slavery, reconstruction and they'll rock this mole hill also.
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: Charles on 3/17/2010 2:27PM
I'll always believe my reluctance to have children at a young age is what got me thru the hard times. I was able to leave jobs without hesitation, further my education, travel and just enjoy my life . Women have this option above all others yet they still make the decision to bring a child into this world and then struggle to provide for them. The institution of marriage will sometimes guarantee a partner will be there to assist, but this not the route many women chose too many .
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: jacque on 3/17/2010 3:09PM
How many women do you know that get threi hair , nails,etc done everyweek that's money that you can take and invest. Instead of paying rent to some one how about buying your own house. Let's face facts how many of us if we lost our jobs would be able to survie 2 weeks or heaven forbid 1 year.This is just my opion but the one thing our current ecomnic woes have taught me is pay myself first, I increased my savings I clip coupons , and do my own hair etc. I went back to doing the things my mother taught me to do.
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: Eva on 3/17/2010 5:32PM
This is so Hurtful but True. If we Afro American women would work together to help one another and stop hating on each other we will have more in life. There so much we can do but it start with ourselves first.
And That's Real!
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: Vivian on 3/17/2010 7:12PM
Hi brother's and sisters,
From the very beginning of our arrival on American soil, we've always been the under dogs. All these surveys and statistics are not totally true. They still want us to believe that we're beneath every
ethnicity group, but we know better. Not boasting,
but the black woman is by far the strongest people
in America. Why? Because we are still here in spite of the horrendous things we had to endure.
Unfortunately, most people don't want to recognize
there's a black woman in the White House for the first time (without a broom or mop), however, that didn't change other's attitude about us, mostly
because of Ignorance, but also because of stu-
pidity, and racism. Our ancesters were unlearned slaves on American soil, but we're still here.
The Indians, as well as mexicans were here long before blacks (unless you count the Moors), but we made it, and shall continue to make it. We are God's people, and the sheep of his pasture. Actually, we need to concentrate on the New World Order and our people's knowledge of what's truly going on in this evil world. Let's all get a grip, calm down, and prepare ourselves for what this cruel world (shadow government) has prepared for us all. Not just blacks, but for "EVERYBODY" I read a blog the other day written by a young white boy (my assumption), he was complaining that blacks are always complaining about racism, so he complained saying, "The blacks are racist too
against white people. We never complain about the
few white guys playing basketball or football!!!!
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: Iconoclast on 3/17/2010 7:23PM
Sistahs and brothahs, we have survived slavery, but we are still enslaved by capitalism. We have to stop working on the appearance of wealth and, instead, work on building real wealth in the bank.
Don't take this as soliciting! I've read a book called Start Late, Finish Rich. It has changed the way I look at money and prosperity, and I wish I had been taught its principles twenty years ago. I would have a grip of money in the bank right now, if so. If everyone did what this book advised, there would be no need for an article like this one.
And as for the "herpes" statisic...has anyone clocked in the stats on the white, Latin and Asian communities? The last time I took a health class, we were told that one in four PEOPLE have herpes. That can be anyone in the American population, regardless of race and sex. JUST A VOICE IN THE WILDERNESS TALKING.
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: Carlos on 3/17/2010 7:49PM
I can believe it. I know a lot of black women who are on aid and have no job or work minimal hours and complain when they have to go to work. I think if they stopped havin 4 and 5 kids by different daddy's, losers, they will be ok. It baffles me.
Reply to this Comment | Report This
By: trisha on 3/17/2010 9:32PM
you have to be one of the most ignorant people on here people like you with your sterotypes is why the world is like it is you should be ashamed of your silly self.
Report This
By: Trish on 3/17/2010 9:40PM
carlos you have to be one of the most ignorant people ever you are why the world is like it is you sterotype in all reality you most likely have no clue what your talking about you just go off what all the other ignorant people say. you are a sad story i pitty you.
Reply to this Comment | Report This