
This week, Dr. Boyce Watkins is joined by Shanda Freeman, wife of hip hop star Fatman Scoop and co-host of their hit MTV show 'Man and Wife,' and entertainment reporter S. Tia Brown to discuss -- CHEATING!
Why to do men do it, especially the celebrity men, when they have so much to lose? From Tiger to Tiki, Jesse and more, get the low down on why men can't commit -- from the women's perspective. And learn the special qualities of a man who is ready to settle down.
Watch Dr. Boyce Watkins on AOL Black Voices now! And be sure to leave your comments below.

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By: Helen Thomas on 5/06/2010 1:08PM
As a woman, I am too tired of these redundant topics. My take? Get yourselves together, and stop worrying about some man cheating on you. If you were less desperate for sex and more concerned about his character, you wouldn't get involved with men who think infidelity is a right. And stop raising sons to whom you give license to cheat.
I rest my case.
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By: G. E. N. on 5/06/2010 11:31PM
Men are raised by the media to be sex machines
-with extramarital sex is glorified with women looking to say they are better than his wife and try to steal them away.
Women target celebrities and rich married men as walking ATM's and pursue them to steal them away from a wife that probably became selfish and sexually boring because they are now married and don't see a need to keep him sexually content anymore.
Since he is the moneymaker, she lives the life of a queen, he is now looking to satisfy his sexual needs.
If he is well off financially, and reasonably good looking, he has a large choice of women. and if he is a leading man type, that has fame and fortune, the choice of eligible women, single and married is infinite.
Many well off women can't settle for a good man unless he is her financially superior or who like to be boss around.
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By: Monique on 5/06/2010 5:52PM
I believe this was a great topic of discussion and we can't get enough of them as these are issues going on within the community. As it is important to have open dialoge with your partner and where each of you stand; what issues you need to work on individually or collectively; ultimately, we each have to take responsibility for ourselves and start there before we get involved in a relationship or marriage.
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By: MIZZKITTYBABY35 on 5/08/2010 8:35PM
I agree with that Monique 100% .
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By: Joe on 5/06/2010 10:30PM
This is so stupid and I for one am tired of all the BS. For one thing why do these articles pretend like men is the only one to cheat and who have a problem. Women is no different than men and just because you are a celebrity dont mean you are any different than anybody else. All it means is that people is going to pry into your business.
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By: invno1wj on 5/07/2010 1:21AM
First of all it is not all the men fault, women stop belittling yourselves messing with married men, Angelina Jolie, Gabriel Union, Alicia Keys, etc. They know those men were married, but still. In addition, men, stop leaving your kids and family to be with someone just because you think they are better than what you have. Not only are you abandoning your wife, but you are leaving the home of where your children are at, now you are a part time dad because you chose some woman over them.
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By: karen johnson on 5/07/2010 1:53AM
I think the reason men cheat is because of the sex only. it has nothing to do with the women at all.Men like to have sex and they want it when ever they can get it. It doesnt even matter if there in love with the wife or girlfriend he is going to do it any way. you can have the best relationship but he's still going to cheat. You can give him sex everday;he's still going to cheat.so women stop thinking it's all about you because it's not, you dont have the bomb stuff that he's coming to see you and not his wife. no, that's not true more than likly his sleepy with all you because he doesnt want to mess things up at home. He thinks this is the way it suppose to be. 2 bulls to 12 cows. the thing is are we women enough to stop what we have made. i think not. if women continue giving it up there will always be men cheating. Just remeber it's not about you.
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By: Justin on 9/11/2010 9:26AM
And this is what is sick with society. And this is why society will be destroyed.
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By: Laysha on 9/11/2010 11:42AM
"News Flash there are more Women that Cheat it's just that were careful we don't consider cheating if were mad at our Boyfriends then do his friends or when were on a trip we have a couple of drinks and have a good time and sleep with someone there it works both ways it's just that women we are more sneakier than men I have a friend who is dating a married man and she's the best friend of his wife or the Woman who is sleeping with her Husbands Boss it's not just one sided it's just that the Media labels Men as this alot of Men do like sex and so do Women but, as long as these women sell thereselves cheat and want to be on the side for sex or money from the guy it will continue it all depends on the character of the person alot of people have cheated in relationships and if your in love with the right one you will feel satisfied to not cheat Love can Conqueor all there are some men who wont take easy sex if a woman is throwing it at them but, were only Human it's up to the individual to make that decision and what morals they have it works both ways and it takes two to tangle....
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By: Bruce George, Co-Founder of Russell Simmons Def Poetry Jam on 10/13/2010 7:35PM
I loved the interview from the beginning to the end. The truth is priceless!
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