Most of us have spent a great deal of time hearing the most shocking
details of the relationship between the actor Mel Gibson and his child's mother, Oksana Grigorieva. Gibson, who made quite a name for himself as an actor, has made an even bigger name for himself as the man who said his ex-girlfriend would be at fault if she were
"raped by a pack of ni**ers." What most of you probably don't know is that if Gibson had played his cards correctly, he could have been at a point where it didn't matter if we saw his movies or not, since he'd be loaded to the eyeballs in money regardless.
OK, here is what Mel Gibson did right financially that would have put him in a position where he wouldn't have to care if his movie career lasts or not. In 2004, he self-financed a little old film called 'The Passion of the Christ.' This film earned him over $610 million through box offices around the world. This led to his 2005 income of $185 million, making him the third most powerful celebrity in all of Hollywood. Not only did Gibson have money, he also had
power. There was no need for him to sit around hoping for an audition to be in another film project, for he could make himself the star whenever he pleased.
Power and control represent lessons that can be learned by many of us in the black community, who are still finding out that wealth and ownership come with the perk of not having to depend on other people to get the things you need. Athletes and entertainers can learn from this as well, and it is clear that ownership and institution-building are the best anti-racism tools in America. Black unemployment would not be so high if we owned many of the businesses that are giving (or not giving) jobs to people in our community.
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Pam Grier: Now
Following a strong supporting role as Steven Seagal's detective partner in 1988's 'Above the Law,' Grier received critical acclaim in the title role in Quentin Tarantino's 1997 film 'Jackie Brown,' which led to a Screen Actors Guild nomination for outstanding performance by an actress in a leading role. Since 2004, she has starred in the Showtime television series 'The L Word' as Kit Porter.
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Lawrence Hilton-Jacobs: Now
Hilton-Jacobs would later gain more recognition for his portrayal of Joseph Jackson in ABC's highly rated miniseries 'The Jacksons: An American Dream.' He has also guest starred on TV shows such as 'Moesha,' 'Girlfriends' and 'That's So Raven.'
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Pam Grier: Now
Following a strong supporting role as Steven Seagal's detective partner in 1988's 'Above the Law,' Grier received critical acclaim in the title role in Quentin Tarantino's 1997 film 'Jackie Brown,' which led to a Screen Actors Guild nomination for outstanding performance by an actress in a leading role. Since 2004, she has starred in the Showtime television series 'The L Word' as Kit Porter.
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Antonio Fargas: Now
Fargas continues to act today and has appeared on TV's 'Everyone Hates Chris' for the last few seasons. His son, Justin, is a running back for the Oakland Raiders. Fargas is slated to appear in the film 'Once Fallen' alongside Taraji P. Henson and Ed Harris.
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Fred Williamson: Now
Williamson is still working as an actor, most notably working alongside George Clooney in 1995's 'From Dusk Til Dawn' and 2004's 'Starsky and Hutch' with Snoop Dogg.
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Ken Norton: Now
Norton appeared in more than 20 films and had roles on 'Knight Rider' and 'The A-Team.' He retired from boxing in 1981 and watched his son, Ken Norton, Jr., play in the NFL and win Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys and the San Francisco 49ers.
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Jayne Kennedy
Long before Halle Berry was crowned Miss Ohio in 1986, Kennedy was the first African American woman to win the title in 1970. After a series of supporting roles in numerous films, she starred with then-husband Leon Isaac Kennedy in the 1981 movie 'Body and Soul,' a shattering story of corruption, violence and temptation.
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Jayne Kennedy: Now
Following her divorce, Kennedy did limited acting before marrying actor Bill Overton in 1985 and becoming a mother of three daughters. She has also worked for the Children's Miracle Network, where she raised millions for several hospitals.
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Paula Kelly: Now
Kelly stopped appearing in films in the late '70s and guest starred in a variety of television movies and sitcoms, including 'Sanford and Son,' 'Golden Girls,' 'Good Times,' 'Any Day Now,' and the Oprah Winfrey-produced 'The Women of Brewster Place.'
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Curtis Mayfield
One of the best soundtracks of the blaxploitation era came from this Chicago native. His music to the 1972 film 'Super Fly,' which starred Ron O'Neal as a drug dealer trying to go legit, had a few singles that landed atop the music charts including 'Freddie's Dead' and the title track to the movie.
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Curtis Mayfield: Now
In 2003, the album was ranked 69th on Rolling Stone's list of the 500 greatest albums of all time. On Aug. 13, 1990, Mayfield was paralyzed from the neck down after stage lighting equipment fell on him at an outdoor concert in New York City. Mayfield was inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame on March 15, 1999, along with Paul McCartney, Billy Joel, Bruce Springsteen, Dusty Springfield and George Martin. He died later that year on Dec. 26.
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Now, here is what you do not want to learn from Mel Gibson. In spite of the fact that Gibson was, at one time, reportedly worth nearly a billion dollars, he seemed to think that he was made of money. First, his wife of 27-years, Robyn, walked away with a reported $400 million after their divorce. That's what happens when you're a wealthy Hollywood actor without a prenup. Then, there is the five million he claims to have spent on his new girlfriend to help launch her music career. Additionally, he has eight kids to feed, along with all the other people to whom he is financially committed. So, like the late Michael Jackson, Gibson has leveraged himself exhaustively to the point that he needs to earn millions each year just to stay afloat.
In fact, in Gibson's own words spoken in the
politely recorded audio his ex-girlfriend has given to the media: "Because of you, I had to sell the mother----ers [,referring to his Lakers box seats]." He then went on to say "I don't have any f---ing money! I have to support you and everybody else! I have to sell paintings. I have to sell my box at the Lakers game... I spent more than $5 million on you! ... Say thank you now!"
Let's be clear, Gibson is a highly disturbed human being. What can be learned from him, however, is that wealth building and ownership are keys to your freedom, no matter how you use it. Had Gibson managed his personal life a bit more carefully, he could have been in a very good position financially, no matter how many fans he has lost. What can also be learned from Gibson is that if you don't manage your personal life and over-leverage yourself economically, you can be in an even worse position than you would be if you were poor. You can learn a lot from the mistakes of other people. Mel unfortunately gives us way too many examples of what not to do.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action Resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.
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By: Lila on 7/17/2010 12:56AM
In actuality, he has simply fallen short of God's grace just like all of us.
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By: DENISE on 7/17/2010 10:01AM
Please do not bring Mr. Michael Joseph Jackson into this sad situation. I believe and will forever proclaim that Mr. Jackson was sadistically destroyed by character assassination, and speculation founded in hatred, racism, jealousy, envy greed and disrespect from all forms of the media even the African American population, with all the jokes and snide remarks.
Our American society has become so voyeuristic it just feeds on it!! It is evident in such total disregard for God and Man as He Was Created in His Image!!!!
I don't usually go to or comment on sites but I am saddened, no better yet grieved by the way people make their living by provoking such and outcry of judging thru malicious banter and down right ignorant conclusions about people they don't know outside of their craft. Mr. Gibson needs prayer as We all do. Let us individually” LOOK AT THE MAN IN THE MIRROR “. Face What You See, Don’t Deceive Yourself And Make A Change For The Better.
I know many will respond negatively, or profanely, because the Truth is hard to take, but all is said in Love and hope that somebody wants it. NOT PERFECT BUT SEEKING.
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By: Focus on 7/17/2010 1:36PM
As if Michael Jackson had absolutely nothing to do with the choices he made by bringing children to his house, not once, but twice, after Cochran advised not to do so. As if Michael was taught to be a good steward of his money by Joe Jackson.
Come on, Mr. Jackson was responsible for his own career, decline and unfortunately his premature death. No one destroyed him but himself.
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By: joe caprio on 7/17/2010 11:07AM
THIS PART HE IS NOW PLAYING IN REAL LIFE CONIST OF LOSS OF DIRECTION, ADDICTION, BIGITRY,BLAMBING THE WORLD FOR HIS STUPIDITY IN WOMAN AND LIFE IN GENERAL. I WONDER HOW IT ENDS? JOE CAPRIO
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By: JOE CAPRIO on 7/17/2010 11:19AM
THE ROLL GIBSON IS NOW PLAYING IS CALLED LIFE. IT CONSIST OF ADDICTION,BEING MAD AT THE WORLD IN THE FORM OF BIGITRY,STUPIDITY, LACK OF COHERANT THOUGHT,BAD CHOICES IN SOME WOMAN AND NOT A CLUE AS TO WHERE HIS LIFE IS AND WHERE IT'S GOING.SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT MOVIE . I WONDER HOW IT ENDS.
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By: Patty on 7/17/2010 1:26PM
Mel is a hateful man. All you can do is pray for his soul. I dont understand why people can hate yet claim they are a christian. My reaction to his hate is to love. I feel he best revenge against a hateful person is to be the best person you can be. Apparently the devil rewards his people with money and fame. When you die all is left is the memories of you and how you made others feel. That is the legacy I want to leave behide. Love thy enemies so you can have everlasting life,
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By: Focus on 7/17/2010 1:37PM
As if Michael Jackson had absolutely nothing to do with the choices he made by bringing children to his house, not once, but twice, after Cochran advised not to do so. As if Michael was taught to be a good steward of his money by Joe Jackson.
Come on, Mr. Jackson was responsible for his own career, decline and unfortunately his premature death.
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By: londa on 7/18/2010 6:04PM
#1) Michael Is dead and gone and cant defend himself.(RIP) (#2) The comment says stick to the subject which happens to be about Mel Broke Ass Gibs:) He deserves everything thats coming to him. He cheated on his wife, the ugly comments, ect. You can continue to do people wrong and expect to blossum. #3) The difference between Mel and micheal Is the world has legit proof of his Ignorance and Michaels was pure speculation. smooches!
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By: sadams39 on 7/17/2010 3:02PM
best article you've written. Agree and read you load and clear
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By: Lazaro Garcia on 7/17/2010 3:13PM
Labor law it is not the same thing that family law. You can not put together the level of discrimination in USA ussing illegal workers to destroy the financial freedom, credit and opportunity of the Legal Hispanic citizens and others minorities for the fact that she is Russian trying to give hard time to Mel Gibson looking for attention of a younger lady like Harrison Ford did. I am Cuban and I know what it mean discrimination and the females poor in USA they need to stop continue supporting the mentality of victimization to get money easy sacrifing the relationship between the parent male and ussing the children as a financial resource. If she know that Mel Gibson it is insane or with some kind of obsetion with her, both partners they are responsible. If I am a woman, I walk away without money, but I don't have a child with someone that I hate. The case of this lady it is another way of get money easy, because she never going to go back to Mell Gibson and get counseling together with him. She was working in a plan that with only 7 months she is espousing to get money. I am sorry but I can ot suppor that.
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