
When my youngest daughter turned 18, I picked her up and drove straight to the post office. She wasn't sure why we were making this trip, but I explained it along the way. I let her know that we were going to do something that would take only 20 minutes, but would change her life forever: We were signing her up to get a passport.
Now the passport was a necessity due to the trip she and I were about to take to Haiti with the National Professionals Network (NPN), but this was also a teachable moment for me. I figured that if I was to learn the NPN principles of working together and thinking globally, I would force myself to impart similar views onto my child.
I had to wait until my daughter Carmen was 18 to get her passport, primarily because I am not her biological father. I "adopted" her after being her track coach when she was nine years old and realizing that her own father had chosen not to embrace the blessing of having such a wonderful child in his life. I believe that every child deserves a father, and this relates to my concept of the "fatherhood bailout," which calls on black men wishing to be dads to proactively mentor kids whose fathers have chosen not to do their jobs. In other words, you don't have to have a child in order to be a parent.
At any rate, I explained to Carmen that far too many of "us" have a hard time seeing outside our own neighborhoods. We live, work, grow old and die in the same city without ever venturing beyond our boundaries to see all that the world has to offer. I also explained that black women who get ahead in business and in life are more likely to have a global perspective. I think she got the point. But then again, it didn't matter, because we were going to get the passport anyway.
When it comes to our economic situation, African Americans who see the rest of the world realize that we are not nearly as poor as we'd like to believe. There are people in China, Africa and South America who struggle to find food each day, yet we have people in the U.S. claiming poverty while owning iPhones, Nike sneakers and Coach purses. You can't be a chubby kid with an Xbox and truly argue that you're poor, but that's what happens to some of us who become committed to the idea of self-pity.
Another thing that my daughter learned during our recent trips to Haiti and Mexico is that opportunities are out there if you are willing to hustle for them. She saw Haitian merchants using clever and assertive sales tactics to raise money from their customers. In China, I saw 60-year old men riding their bikes 20 miles each day to work while dragging a crate full of bananas. The point is that many people around the world have learned a level of hustle that we as spoiled Americans have yet to truly embrace. If citizens in economically impoverished nations can work to create opportunities where there are none, then we should certainly be willing to make something happen in the richest country in the world.
My point is not to say that African Americans don't have significant hurdles. It is to say that by giving your kids a global perspective and exposing them to a variety of cultures, you are giving them a tremendous advantage in their professional and personal lives. Every black child should get a passport, and you should demand that your children use it. The more you see of the world, the larger your world seems to be.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action Resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here. 
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By: Angela at Neglected Princess on 8/12/2010 2:26PM
Your daughter is lucky to have you in her life, and you are so right about passports! The world is a HUGE place, and our children should see as much of it as they can. I got my kids passports two years ago when they were 8 and 13. Great post!
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By: jwhite6466 on 8/12/2010 3:17PM
You are so right.Passport is a must for kids. I got mine kid one too.
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By: Marion on 8/15/2010 11:52AM
Sir, you hit the nail on the head. On my military order to Bahrain, it was required to have an official passport. Afterward, I went to the embassy to get a tourist passport and in order for my wife and kids to visit me, they needed passports. Once they received their passport, they flew out to visit me with stops in Ireland, Spain, Greece, and Italy. I also have the passport card as a extra form of ID as well.
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By: rasfanta on 8/14/2010 9:16PM
Yes,we need a passport. I wish it did have to be an american passport but unfortunately, I do not have dual citizenship like many people in america do. When the globalism BS began to be dispersed, the rally cry became, "We are a nation of immigrants." Well I ain't no immigrant. Neither are my parents, grandparents, great-granparents, etc. When I hear them say, "We are a nation of immigrants, I ask myself, than who the fu-k am I? This is BS. By continuously ramming this line down the throats of american people, they made us feel like there is no culture that is native american. They tried to make us think we are not a soverign nation. We have a music tradition, for example, in this country that is strictly american: country music, the music of appalachia, jazz, blues, soul, rap etc. This music did not come from immigrants. It came from native american people. We have a culture. Yes, we have had our racial problems but I think it is fanned by a source that does not want to see american unity, cohesiveness. This made it easy for them to rip off the wealth of the american people. This is why we are not on the streets protesting the way we used to do.
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By: marlene on 8/16/2010 9:54PM
Well said Dr.Watkins. Belive me this goes for blacks , whites and latinos. I have met folks who have never left their state let alone flying on a plane. Not even on a greyhound bus.
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By: Renee Greene on 8/17/2010 3:18AM
Do you presume that "all" black children and/or their parents can afford it? Or are their funds available to pay for these passports and trips for the "least of these"?
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By: Mike C. Okereke on 8/17/2010 6:09PM
Dr. Boyce,
You are absolutely right in your suggestion that American children, especially African Americans, get a passport and be ready to see the world outside of their domains. That will be a good idea if they can all afford the trip(s).
Implicit in such a nice idea is the danger of creating a generation of people, who in the end, would be tarred by the "Ugly American" concept. The typical ugly American is that American citizen (Black or White, especially, White) who would go to another part of the world, and develop a better - than - thou atittude towards the citizen to whom he/she is visiting. This category of Americans tend to be loud, garrulous, arrogant and all that, in the coutry that they are visiting.
My question to you, Dr. Boyce, is this: How can you incise Ugly Americanism from your package of good advise to all Americans, especially, to African Americans?
Mike C. Okereke
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