
Leon's wife, Clara, was having an affair with her second husband, who'd been arrested in the past for beating her in front of her child (yes, you're probably thinking what I'm thinking). After finding the e-mail, Walker contacted Clara's first husband, the man who fathered the child, who then filed an emergency order of protective custody to get his child back. That was when Leon's wife filed a lawsuit against him.
The criminal charges are contingent upon a Michigan law that makes it illegal to access protected computer networks "intentionally and without authorization." While prosecutors claim that the law can be applied, there are defense attorneys who believe that the law is being applied to the wrong scenario.
"I've been a defense attorney for 34 years and I've never seen anything like this," said attorney Leon Weiss. "This is a hacking statute, the kind of statute they use if you try to break into a government system or private business for some nefarious purpose. It's to protect against identity fraud, to keep somebody from taking somebody's intellectual property or trade secrets."
One point of contention is that while Clara claims that the computer belonged to her, Leon is the one who purchased it. He also says that she kept her passwords in a book next to the computer. Finally, Leon argues that he was justified in sending the e-mails to Clara's first husband because it was a matter of protecting the child from the man who'd battered his wife in the past.
This case was interesting because it applies to the millions of Americans in relationships where one partner isn't sure if the other one is being faithful. It also reminds us that seemingly petty relationship issues can have very real long-term financial implications. While this situation is certainly a matter of the heart, it has now led to a prolonged and expensive legal battle that may land a man in prison. Yes, this was one of those sticky "Financial Lovemaking" issues.
The age of the Internet has forever changed the way relationships work. While there was a time when women like Clara might never see her many ex-husbands and ex-boyfriends again, she now lives in a world where every ex-boyfriend is just an email or Facebook friend request away. Keeping up with all this can drive the jealous spouse insane, as there countless stories of people stalking out their partner's Facebook pages, breaking into their e-mails and checking their phones when they're not looking. Personally, I think it's just too much. The reality is that you can't keep up with everything your partner is doing or every relationship they have. You might as well accept the fact that this is no longer 1990, and you can't keep inventory on every aspect of your partner's life. If there is no trust in your relationship, then you may need to simply let that person go, it's really as simple as that.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce's commentary delivered to your e-mail, please click here. 
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By: mochaelpaso on 12/28/2010 3:45PM
If he goes to jail because of this...any faith...what little I have...in the justice system of America will go out the proverbial window. It was his house, he had a right to look. If this goes to court and she wins, every child will argue the fact that their parents don't have a right to look into their activities online, etc. There is just too much disease, etc., going on...if in doubt, check it out...and that's what he did. Kudos to him, she should be the one being prosecuted. I don't think, however, that he should have brought the 1st husband into the picture. I agree with what you said...if there is no trust, let the relationship go or no one will be happy and each person will be living in misery.
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By: Michael Castle on 12/28/2010 3:56PM
Hi my name is Michael Castle. I am an African American male who wrote and self published an autobiography about the trials and tribulations of my life. I am currently experiencing kidney failure and am looking for an outlet to have my story heard. I reached out to Natalie Cole, via her website, who went through kidney failure for assistance but to no avail.
It is very unfortunate that most successful African Americans are not willing to help out the less than fortunate African Americans who are trying to do the right thing. It seems as though when you try to be positive you get no assistance from your own people. I am currently self promoting and selling the book out of my car and referring people to the website where it was published but with very little luck. I committed myself to doing this the right way rather that going out knocking people over the head as they expect of us.
I pray that you and your staff will be different. Attached you will find my original 8 1/2 x 11 manuscript in which the publisher shrunk to a 6 x 9 paperback. The end result is alright but they didn't do me proper justice when shrinking it. They would have charged me for editing services as well as my original book cover. I can't complain because God gave me the wisdom to publish this book for free whereas other publishers wanted to publish it for me for fees varying in prices that ranged up to as much as $8,000 without any guarantee that the book would sell.
The name of the book is Child of God seeking the Promised Land and it can be found at www.lulu.com. In six weeks it will be on amazon.com and other retailers.I pray that when people read the book that they focus on the message opposed to the lack of editing when shrinking the book. I would like to thank you in advance for your consideration in getting me some exposure. Have a Blessed and Wonderful Day !!
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Michael Castle
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By: j bethea on 12/28/2010 8:33PM
Dr Boyce you are insane this has nothing about keeping inventory about what you so call better half is doing i bet if you thought your better have was cheating on you you would do the same thing so please stop your mightier than thou superficial comments. are you a brother on the DL hiding behind the DR. name if not save your comment for something tangible with merit and not get away from real life's situations that may endanger children lives..
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By: datruthisscary on 12/29/2010 12:26AM
Whew! Calm down. It's gonna be alright. Tell us, how did you catch your mate cheating? lol
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By: ksm9480 on 12/31/2010 5:55PM
My goodness! It's not that serious for you to fire back with such rage. He's only stating his opinion just like you are stating yours. You both have a right to state your opinions but to BASH someone for their opinion is tantamount to bashing God for given the person a mind to think with and a mouth to speak his mind!!! Honestly, if anyone thinks their spouse was cheating, the smart thing to do would be to pay a private investigator to find out so that you can keep your nose clean. DO IT THE RIGHT WAY. Don't do something stupid like this when you know it's breaking the law.
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By: Rene on 12/28/2010 11:48PM
Not to be judgemental, but what could Clara be thinking? She's cheating on #3 with #2 and now she's lost her son to #1 (the natural father). Maybe she's just a little "pissy" because she's been caught and now she's going to lose her son (the meal ticket). As for #3... you should know by now that you are better off without her... not to be judgemental...
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By: Teedee on 12/31/2010 7:33AM
Kudos!!! how dare you missy to think you could cheat like that and not get caught!! Trust is the main part of a relationship, you ruined that didn't you. Girlfriend is right...Not to be judgemental!!!!!
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By: brachm5 on 12/29/2010 12:06AM
Nobody died here. Nothing lasts forever, love fades; cut them loose when you know, you are no longer the one. I do not think you should go to prison for confirming your doubts about your spouse; just keep it to yourself, and walk out.
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By: Colorado karl on 12/29/2010 1:44AM
If you're married, everything is joint property. you can't "steal" or "trespass" stuff that's half yours too.
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By: pachonette on 12/29/2010 2:41AM
i agree 100%, who needs that kinda drama?? If you can't trust your mate kickem to the curb & get a new one.. As the saying goes: there truly are too many fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!
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